Personal Success


18
May 11

Being inclusive is an essential part of the modern office place

It is natural for people in any environment to gravitate towards those who share similar likes and dislikes but in the office place it is important that one be as inclusive as possible to ensure that no resentments build up between co-workers.

Often times men (and women) in the workplace talk about last night’s game in whatever sport is in season. While this is perfectly acceptable, they should be sure not to discuss sports in a manner that seems to make them exclusive. If a co-worker who is perhaps not as knowledgeable at sports chimes in with an opinion, employees should be sure to respect this comment and not be dismissive. Such etiquette also extends to other conversation topics as well.

In a similar vein, one should be sure to invite everyone in his or her respective work group out after work if he or she is inviting a significant number of them. This isn’t to say that two or three friends can’t go out together after work but when that group swells to seven or eight people, those who are not invited may feel left out.

Consideration for other people’s feelings is an important part of personal development.


30
Apr 11

Saving money starts with your good health.

Many of us have heard the saying “Health is Wealth.”  But have you ever been guilty of putting aside the things that you know are good for your health because of not enough time and money?

In an online article entitled “Five of the Worst Ways to Save Money”  on Moneyning.com, the number 1 worst way to save money is Neglecting Your Health.

Obviously, most of the time we don’t think about it as ‘neglecting our health.’  We often say… “I’ll do it when I have more time,” or “I want to take care of myself but I have bills to pay,” or ”My condition is not THAT bad, I’ll be ok.”

In a sense, all of these are true.  We are often limited in terms of time and money, and it may seem that doing something to ‘feel better’ is a luxury rather than a necessity.

But the above article points out that discounting the value of our health in the long run can cost a great deal more time and money than what it takes to stay healthy through good diet and exercise.  Lower working productivity, increased pain, fatigue or depression are just some of the possible long-term effects that come from ‘putting off’ doing something to feel better.  And the longer these symptoms persist, the harder they may be to correct.

When someone decides to try a class at the Dahn Yoga center, they often come after some signal or event in their life.  It can be as dramatic as being fired from a job, ending a relationship or losing a loved one, or as mundane as noticing a few more aches and pains in the body.  Whatever the reason, the impulse to do something to feel better is an important one, and it’s worth listening to that voice in your head that says “I should really do something about this.”

If your time or your money are limited, try to find the way to balance your ‘outside’ responsibilities with your ‘inside’ ones- specifically your health and peace of mind.  Treating health and happiness as responsibilities rather than luxuries is an important part of moving in a positive direction, and ultimately, maintaining your quality and length of life.

So the next time you’re faced with the decision of whether or not to spend time and money for your health, make your condition a priority.  Find a way to take at least a small step forward, even while you manage the other responsibilities in your life.  The choice between a small step and no step can make all the difference in the world!


29
Apr 11

Choosing sunshine on a cloudy day…

According to meteorologist Tom Skilling of WGN in Chicago, we are on pace to have the cloudiest April in 118 years.  With that comes a couple of things- rain, cooler temperatures, and for many people, an increased sense of fatigue and depression.

Of course, everyone can react differently to the weather.  Some people seem to love nothing more than a rainy day.  I myself enjoy thunderstorms, especially on a hot summer night.  But extended grey cloud cover and rainy weather seems to get many people down.

This brings up the question, ’just how much depends on the weather?’  Or more generally, are we predominately influenced by outside factors—environmental and social—or can we choose our own feelings and outlooks?  And how can we better create our state of mind the way we want?

Dahn Yoga classes incorporate exercises like stretching, breathing, core strengthening, and energy meditation to develop more ‘energy’ connection.  Energy is the thing that connects the physical body with the non-physical mind.  In fact, ’Dahn’ can literally be translated to mean ‘Energy,’ so the whole Dahn Yoga practice is in a sense designed to strengthen the energy, or mind-body, connection.

By strengthening this energy connection it becomes easier to connect our thoughts and intentions with a corresponding feeling.  For example, let’s say I have had conflicts with coworkers in the past.  I know that getting upset does not help the situation, it only makes things worse and it actually puts me in danger of getting fired!  Intellectually, I know I should try to remain calm and in control, but my ability to do this in a moment of conflict depends on whether I can watch my feelings and choose the one that I want, even when the external situation would otherwise make me upset.  It is this watching power, or awareness, that is developed through the Dahn Yoga energy practice.

So if you’re looking for more power to choose a positive frame of mind, try a class at the Dahn Yoga Center.  Because in life, as we know all too well in Chicago, we may be waiting a long time before we finally get that sunny day!


8
Apr 11

How to dress on casual days at the office

Dress-down days at work are always a fun thing, perhaps giving employees a way to express themselves in ways that might not be possible in business attire. However, one should be sure to choose an outfit that is appropriate, and maybe even shows upper management his or her personal development.

While casual day is fun, one needs to be careful not to over do it. If one’s office typically dresses in the business-casual style, for guys it may be a good idea to just substitute one’s typical slacks or khakis for jeans, although jeans that aren’t too dirty or torn up.

If one decides to wear a favorite t-shirt, he should be sure that it is not dirty and doesn’t have any inappropriate slogans or images.

For ladies things can get a bit trickier. Woman should be sure not to wear anything too tight or revealing. Ideally, they should wear something that still conveys a professional attitude while showing off a different, perhaps more fun-loving, side of themselves to their co-workers.

Choosing the appropriate attire for casual days at the office can be stressful, but yoga and other similar activities can help one relax and make a smart decision.


22
Mar 11

Life balance essential for working professionals

There aren’t many things more important when handling a career than establishing a good life balance, as it can help people deal with problems that may arise in their personal and professional lives.

Perhaps one of the most important ways to establish a life balance in regards to work is setting boundaries and sticking to them. While modern devices such as Blackberries are excellent tools for getting work done on the road, they can become a ball-and-chain to those who slavishly check them when they are home at night or relaxing on the weekends. One way to set boundaries is to establish a hard-and-fast time when one will turn their cell phone to silent and not check it, emergencies excepted, of course.

Another important aspect of creating a balance is to make sure to allocate time to spend with loved ones. It is obviously important to one’s family that he or she excel at their job, but not spending time with spouses and children can lead to resentment.

Once a life balance is established in regards to one’s career, he or she may want to look into Dahn Yoga DVDs as they may be able to guide people towards getting in touch with their true spiritual selves.